Saying Goodbye

We all have gone through it. Not willingly but rather by choice. Saying goodbye is always the hardest. Walking away is worse. But holding on is even worse. I've held on longer to things rather than accepting that it wasn't meant to be not because I wasn't ready to close that chapter in my life but rather I would be on an endless mission of finding someone to start over with.

Saying goodbye is the hardest thing to endure. To walk away and accept defeat. In your head you pictured the outcome differently. I read a quote once that basically says no matter how amazing and beautiful you are, it will never work out unless a guy is ready. At that point our instinct is to prove that we are the right one. When this happens walk away! You should never have to prove your worth to anyone! Either they know it or they don't. Would you want someone who thinks or just knows?

Here's the bottom line of dating: either your getting married or breaking up. All other options are your choice, but be prepared for the consequences of those choices. That's why people say it's always best to marry your best friend because it takes years to build that. Whether you agree or not is open to discussion. But the harsh reality is that saying goodbye is always the hardest, but as my childhood friend Rebecca says, one day we will laugh about this on your wedding when you finally meet the right one. I'm optimistic for a pessimistic and I can live with that. It's never easy but your not alone. :)